Heartbreak

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Are you in the flow?

Or are you paddling against the stream?

Sometimes its hard to give in and see that, yes maybe we aren’t on the right track. If things start falling apart and it all becomes a big struggle it’s most likely an indicator for you not being aligned with your higher purpose. It seems hard to let go but something new more exciting, better is just waiting around the corner and once you let go of the old you make room for the new unknown exciting.

This is an example from my life…

It’s probably a tough decision, especially when you are in love with someone but you have to let that person go.

Maybe it wasn’t your decision but now it’s up to you to deal with it and make the most of the situation. You know it’s the right thing to do and let go even though you don’t want to. You don’t want to because you think you feel less. You are not!

But in the back of your head there is something that tells you to show her your strength and unconditional love and let her go. Go and do what it is that you need to do but don’t get your ego involved, because ego will turn around and say,  so now that I have let go of you, you should recognise this as a strength of me and come back. Because my life is empty without you. But that is you identifying yourself with your partner, which is conditional love and not free like you maybe hoped it to be!

It rips you apart but sit with it, don’t run away and indulge into your addictions. This is what I used to do and still do to some degree. But when will I be ok with it?

When will it stop to hurt? I don’t know, but I know you can sit with the discomfort, the feeling that you so want to run away from. Now when I talk about indulging into your addictions I am not talking about drugs, I am talking about watching TV or Netflix. Being sucked into your phone and just every second you have the feeling of discomfort or pain or heartbreak, whatever you want to call it, distract yourself with nonsense. Stuff that doesn’t help you to grow but keeps you in the same hamster wheel running in circles.

I know this because I do it too and that’s exactly why i talk about it. I want to help you to recognise it and take a step towards healing your soul and growing into the amazing human being that you are, that we all are!

Nothing lasts forever and once you understand that you become more free and life becomes , i don’t know different I guess. You can see it more with ease.

Fill yourself with love and spread your love to everything/everyone you see, even the angry guy from across the street that doesn’t greet you. Send him some love, like visualise it hug him in your mind with love and see what happens. Be the best version of yourself, only then we can change the world.

Ciao for now,

Hendrik

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